Change Your Life – Love Your Life

  • Do you find yourself exhausted, stressed out, or overwhelmed with your daily life? 
  • Do you feel like you’re in some weird dimension of Groundhog Day where things never change?
  • Do you find yourself pulled in ten directions to the point that it feels like nothing gets done?
  • Do you struggle with focus, goal-setting, and staying consistent?
  • Do you find yourself haunted by your past or by mistakes you’ve made?
  • Do you constantly feel as if the universe is setting you up to fail?

Darling, I have been where you are.

I had an extremely abusive childhood, divorced three husbands over 23 years, raised two kids (and a stepdaughter), struggled to keep the lights on, worked at jobs that made me physically nauseous every morning, and still suffer from anxiety and post-traumatic stress disorder. 

I’ve felt the stress and pain, cried endless tears, and often felt utterly alone in what I was going through.

I am living proof that what comes before your reset moment does not define you.

I’ve fought against all odds to be where I am today – alive and chasing my dreams. I’m a survivor…and if you’re reading this, you are a survivor, too. 

Quitters don’t bother looking for answers. They wallow in self-pity and blame everyone else for their problems. I know you are not a quitter.

What I have isn’t perfection by any means. I still trip over my own intentions and experience periods of self-doubt or low energy. I struggle with depression (and living through a global pandemic has not helped). I will never pretend that any one thing – medications, therapy, “positive” thinking, or what I share with you – will have all the answers.

I will tell you that my approach is grounded in common sense, in actual life experience. Like so many, I’ve spent a great deal of my life without access to healthcare, therapy, or support systems. Circumstances pushed me to find solutions to the problems I faced so I could keep going. Workarounds so I could continue to function. I embodied “fake it ’til you make it” and I’m still here.

That is what I bring to the table.

Join me and let’s get to work.

Much love, 

Shayne McClendon

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